Wednesday, July 19, 2017

Letter from Blanche (Stilwell) Munn to Mary Elva Stilwell, June 1878



The following letter was written by Celia Blanche (Stilwell) Munn to her sisters, Mary Elva ("Minnie") and Edith ("Edie") Stilwell.  Blanche was working as a seamstress in a home in Dartford, Wisconsin.  Her husband, Frank Munn, was not with her.









Mentioned in the letter:

Warren = Warren Stilwell, brother of Blanche, Minnie & Edie.
Frank = Frank Munn, Blanche's husband

Miss Brayman; General & Mrs. Brayman = Blanche seems to be working as a seamstress in the Brayman home.  There was a General Mason Brayman & his wife, Mary Williams, that was Governor of Idaho (1876-1880) and who is buried in Ripon, Wisconsin.  It it possible that this is the same couple.  If so, "Miss Brayman" is probably their daughter, Ella Sophia "Nellie" Brayman.

Mr. & Mrs. Gowdy =  I find a Mr & Mrs Gowdy with the Brayman family on the 1880 census.  They have a son, Mason Gowdy, who is listed as a grandson of Mary (Williams) Gowdy.  From the letter, I thought the Goody's were housekeepers for the family, but the census shows that Mr. & Mrs. Gowdy were family members who cared for the house while the Braymans were in Idaho.

Miss Balash
Fannie Hanchett = could this be the Fannie that wrote other letters to Minnie?  I suspect so.  I was just doing a little research on Fannie Hanchett and discovered that her parents were John J. Hanchett (Mr. Hanchett in the letter) and Jennie Bent.  Jennie Bent was the sister of Edward Clarence Bent who married Hannah Stilwell (sister to Minnie & Blanche).  So Fannie Hanchett was the niece of Clarence and Hannah (Stilwell) Bent.

Mrs. & Miss Gother?

Han & Clarence = Hannah (Stilwell) Bent, sister of Blanche, Minnie & Edie, and her husband, Clarence Bent

Miss Craig
Mrs. Dr. Morgan
Mrs. Rufus 

If I have not identified the people above, then I do not know enough about them to identify them.

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Letter to Miss Minnie Stilwell, Ripon, Wisconsin
Postmark: Dartford, Wisc. June 24


            Sunday June 23, 1878



Dearest Minnie & Edie,

            I have just finished a letter to my Frank.  I will write a few lines to you two “little” big “girls.”  I thought perhaps you might be wondering how I like it here, how long I am going to stay &c. & a little information on the subject might be acceptable.

            First, I like it very much, that is the family & surroundings.  I would rather be nearer home where I can see you all once a week, but all are very kind & pleasant here & try to make me feel at home.  Miss Brayman is just as sweet & nice as she can be & I like Mrs. Gowdy ever so much.  Miss Balash very well but least of all.  She has two sweet little girls, the oldest thirteen & reminds me very much of Fannie Hanchett.  Tell Warren she inquired about him & wanted to know if he had a girl.  I don’t like Mr. Gowdy very well though he reminds me a good deal in his ways of Mr. Hanchett.  He is an offhand indifferent sort of man.  His mother & a sister of his & both sisters of Miss Brayman are visiting here, two dear good old ladies.  Mrs. & Miss Gother [?] are now cousins to each other.  I do not sew after six.  Miss Brayman does not seem to expect it.  Told me the first night to put my work away & not sew any more after tea.  She is a real little lady.  She told me she had been engaged a year & should be a year longer.  Her lover is in Chicago.  She has his picture in a pretty gilt frame with a tiny silver bud holder on the top which we call his shrine, as she keeps the vase filled with fresh flowers all the time.  He is very handsome.  She said everyone told her his engagement would terminate distantly as all long engagements will & when I told her of Han’s five years duration she said she felt encouraged.  If you get a letter for me from Han & Clarence with his picture send it will you.  I should like to show the picture.  Direct to Dartford, care of General Brayman.  General Brayman & wife are in Idaho.  Come home this fall.  Mr. & Mrs. Gowdy keep the house & look after things.  I take a stroll on the lake shore every evening nearly.  They have a boat of their own & have asked me twice to have a row but I am too much afraid.  I declined.  Miss Brayman has a little boat of her own & she says she is going to take me out in it some evening.  I shall be here all this week & part I think all of next.  I have a silk dress to make yet for Miss B---.  She was sick the week before I came & did not get it ready.  It is at Miss Craig’s yet.  She wants a cambric polonaise made & a white wrapper cut & [unreadable word] made.  Miss Gowdy wants me a day or two & Mrs. Dr. Morgan a day.  I sewed fro Miss Bolash a day & a half last week & sew for her tomorrow.  So you can see there is a fair project for two weeks more.  I told Miss B— I thought Father would be too busy to come for me or to meet me in Ripon & she said she would like to drive out, she thought.  She said she would like to meet my father, mother, & sisters.  I will let you know before we come, for I suppose out of common politeness I shall have to ask her to stay until after dinner.  We should not get started so as to get home much before noon.  But you would not need to fuss much you live better or as well any day than they do.  Their cooking is horrid.  Miss Gowdy does not understand it & nothing is half cooked or seasoned.  They live just like farmers.  Mush and beans &c.  They have a lovely strawberry bed and we have had shortcake three times since I came, but they don’t taste like Mother’s.  Have lots of chickens.  The house is beautifully furnished.  The handsomest & the greatest quantity of pictures I ever saw.  The halls & nearly all the rooms are full.  They have a life size oil painting Mr. & Mrs. Beagman Lincon & a friend of Miss B--.  All have elegant gilt frames.  Every room but the sewing room and kitchen look over the lake.  I sew in Miss B—room most the time as the sewing room is over the kitchen with stove pipe & is too warm.  Sleep with Miss B—as the spare rooms are all occupied by company but [unreadable word].  Get up at six & go in the sewing room to wash & dress.  It has a table & dressing bureau with looking glass, so it is very convenient, & I do not distress Miss Brayman who gets up & dress in about five minutes for seven o’clock breakfast & it accommodates slow fussy me successfully.  You know I must wash.  I enjoy the lake but would not want to live here long at a time.  It seems too much like being buried in the woods.  There is a library in the house which would delight your eyes Minn.  I am afraid if you were a sewing girl Miss Brayman would have to stand over you with a switch as you would do more reading than sewing.  I should like to be company myself for awhile to explore its contents.  Tell Father I have got my plaster so he need not buy one.  Mrs. Rufus (?) sent me a postal saying they had come and Miss B—got it yesterday.  I guess I have told you all.  I wish you & Edie would write to me while I am here.  I shall be glad to get home when the time comes.  They do not attend church here at all.  Miss B—said they had company most every Sunday.  I would like to have Frank’s letters but it will not be best to send them for I cannot afford to pay postage.  Write if you will & tell me everything.

            Love & kisses to all.

                                                            Blanche



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