Sunday, April 26, 2020

Letter from Fannie (probably Hanchett) to Minnie Stilwell, Jan. 6, 1884

Well, it is hard to believe that I have not posted anything here since February!  And it is also pretty incredible about all that has changed in the last couple of months.  I hope everyone is staying as healthy and as safe as they possibly can.  We are doing out best here.  And now, I think I'll post another letter.

The following letter is another from Fannie in Sheboygan, Wisconsin.  This is probably Fannie Hanchett.   It is addressed:  Miss Minnie E. Stilwell, Ripon, Wis. and postmarked Sheyboy... Wis., Jan. 7, 1884.

"Don't let any one read this but Nid (?) for I have written in such a hurry & made so many mistakes.

                                                                                                         Sunday Evening
                                                                                                          Jan. 6th, 1884

My Dear Minnie,
     It is rather late in the evening but I am going to have a visit with you before going to bed if you will not mind sitting up a little while with me.
     We will occupy the large easy chair together here by the cozy coal fire and make out tongues run just as fast as they can for it is a long time since we have had our visit.
     The two weeks that I was gone were such busy ones that I hardly found time to write to Papa and since I have been home the holidays have taken so much of my time that this is the reason my dear for my shameful neglect.
     Now before I go any farther give me a good big kiss so I am sure you are not one bit provoked at me.
     O, I had a lovely time every moment while I was gone only I was obligated to make such short visits on account of the holidays being so near.
     I went to Aunt Nellie's Thursday and staid until the next week Saturday then went to Wanasha and stayed 'till Tuesday then went back to Fond du Lac and came home Thursday so I was gone just two weeks.  I did want to stay in Wanasha another week so much I had such a lovely time while there.
     I was so sorry to hear that Cousin Blanche had been sick and I hope ere this she may have entirely recovered.  Of course I was a little disappointed in not visiting you but sickness is something we can not help and even had I been able to have come I should have been obliged to have stayed such a very short time that there wouldn't have been much satisfaction in the visit, but when I do come I shall stay a good long while.  I am afraid I shall not be able to come to the wedding as much as I should like to, for Papa missed me so much while I was gone that I fear he would hardly consent to my going so soon again, but how I would like to and it is quite a disappointment to me to give it up as I planned going so long ago and have talked and thought so much about it.  When is the great event to take place?  I am so anxious to hear for it must be quite near.  Please let me know right away.  I expect Nid (?) is very happy; kiss her for me.
     Well Xmas & Ne Years have come and gone & how did you good folks pass the holidays:  My Xmas was a very merry one.
     Did I write you that we club girls were to have a tree here Xmas night.  Well we did and it was a splendid success.  All the girls exchanged presents and all were here but Annie Schrage.  The girls came at 7 o'clock & gave their presents and the gentlemen were invited at 8 to come & spend the evening.  The tree was in the alcove at (sic) it was perfectly lovely.  We took great pains in trimming ity.  We had the tree ladened (sic) with little cheap toys for the boys and they caused lots of merriment.  We had refreshments of cake, charlotte russe, and nice candies.  Some of the presents the girls gave were lovely.  I gave each one a very pretty gingham work apron that I made myself with a pretty bordered kerchief in each pocket.  It was something entirely different from what the rest gave.
     I wonder if you would like to hear what my presents were.  Well I imagine that I hear you say yes.
     Papa gave me a beautiful butter dish, a willow rocking chair and some toilet soap.  Cousin Sara, a silver thimble and a bordered kerchief, Aunt Joe a stand scarf, Aunt E. a white silk kerchief, Minnie a card, Cousin H & Uncle C a card, Aunt Nellie a bread boat, Albert a lovely large bottle of perfume with 3 kerchiefs, Rublee (?) a case of three books, Mrs. Clarke a pearl calling card case & a lovely card.  Now for the club presents I received - Agnes, a painted tambourine, Helen, a painted tile, Frankie, a painted tile, Mattie 2 table mats for hot dishes, Nellie G. a black leather hand bag, Lillie a set of wash stand mats, Lucy a collar with a button in shave of H., Charlie a vase, Jennie a pair of pink bed room slippers too sweet for anything and then I had a few cards sent me and O yes, Mrs. Cole gave me a book.  I guess now I have told you everything and wasn't I treated pretty well for a naughty girl?
     You must tell me what you got when you write.  How did your mother and father enjoy their surprise?  New Years Day passed pleasantly but quietly and I guess it isn't too late to wish you all a Happy New Year.  I rc'd the lovely cards sent from Ripon, thank Warren for me many times and here is a kiss for you and Nid thanking you for yours.  I have put it on an easel on the piano and every time I look at it I think of you two.  Warrens I have pined (sic) on the wall and it looks very pretty.
     Why I am talking so fast I hardly know where I am but you will have to endure me a little while longer as I'm not quite through.  How did your entertainment go off.  Jennie, Uncle Cl(?) and I are on committee to get up the library entertainment for next Wednesday evening.  They are little 10 cent entertainments we have every two weeks at library hall.  We are finding it rather hard work to get people to help us.
     O, I must tell you of the great surprise we girls, all but Helen, had this morning at Sunday School.  Agnes and Mr. Stewart were married last evening at 8:30 - think of that and we girls never thought of their being married.  Helen is the only one of the girls that was present except Nellie at the ceremony and aren't we girls mad though to think she didn't write us or even tell us for we have vowed that the girls should see each other married.  We were all surprised as Mr. S. has not been unusually attentive to Agnes lately.
     I don't think they have been engaged long & I don't believe she had here wedding day set more than a week.  She had no time to make a wedding trousseau & I don't think she has a thing new.   They are to board at the hotel.  About two months ago he fitted his rooms up very beautifully but we all thought they were for Alice Vedder but it seems they weren't.  It is all very funny anyway.  I hope Agnes will be happy she is such a nice girl.  I am going to see her to-morrow & scold her hard too.
     I guessed I have not written you that Mrs. Vedder is dead.  She died the first of November very suddenly of brain disease.  It was a terrible blow to the family.  They have all left here now & gone to Indiana.  I think it is very sad.
     Albert started for California last week on a business trip.  He expects to be gone about two months.
     Cousin Sara is still west.  She spent last week at Aunt Eunice's but I expect her back to-morrow.  She starts for home in about two weeks.  I shall miss her so much as she has been such good company.
     I am to have club Saturday.  I shall expect Mr. & Mrs. Stewart - Ahem! - to be here.
     Now Minnie I am sure I have made up for lost time and you write me soon & I will answer ditto.  The clock says quarter of 24 by standard time so I must go to bed if  I expect to sleep any before Monday morning.  How I wish you were here & were going to sleep with me to-night.  Well with many a kiss & love more than I can tell
                                                                                   Your Fannie

Frank Williams is very devoted to Jennie just at present.  I am steady as an old clock Haven't a sign of a fellow, but I'm quite happy.
I forgot to tell you that I had Uncle S. & Aunt Joe here to dinner Christmas.
Oh, I was at Mr. Simmons while I was in Fond du Lac & took dinner & stayed all night with his sister while I was there.  He is ever so pleasant.  Minnie's Mr. Simmons cousin.
This F.D.L. Mr. Simmons has a sister I think a great deal of.  We correspond & I visited with her quite a little while in F.D.L.   Don't say I never wrote you a long letter goodness I don't know as I shall ever be able to stop writing.
My club friend Annie Schrage expects to have an increase in her family in April or May.  She was only married last July, but that is the way the world goes."


From the context of the letter, I believe "Nid" must be Edith May Stilwell, Minnie's sister.   Edith married Judson Kellogg on 16 January 1884, so that is the wedding that Fannie mentions.
Most of the rest of the people mentioned seem to be friends of Fannie's.





  






















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